{"id":9926,"date":"2014-07-16T14:40:26","date_gmt":"2014-07-16T19:40:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/trainingmag.com\/sharing-stories-to-show-truth\/"},"modified":"2014-07-16T14:40:26","modified_gmt":"2014-07-16T19:40:26","slug":"sharing-stories-to-show-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trainingmag.com\/sharing-stories-to-show-truth\/","title":{"rendered":"Sharing Stories to Show Truth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have always loved John P. Kotter\u2019s book, \u201cThe Heart of Change,\u201d and the significant statement he made: \u201cPeople change what they do less because they are given analysis that shifts their thinking than because they are shown a truth that influences their feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sharing stories is an amazing way to show people the truth in any organization. When stories are well publicized, they help influence people\u2019s feelings and affect their beliefs, which, in turn, reinforces desired behavioral change and results. Think of the times you have heard of the nameless Dutch boy who saved the day by putting his finger in the dyke\u2014a short tale highlighting one person\u2019s heroic and simple act that saved the day.<\/p>\n<p>In today\u2019s workplace, we don\u2019t hear of too many tales that become legends that change people. It\u2019s difficult for C-suite leaders to both initiate connections and stay connected with all of their employees. They have a hard time being visible and available to employees. Too many of these leaders are considered the \u201cinvisible minority\u201d in their workplaces where workers have no relationship with them and lack the trust to be fully connected.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A TRUE STORY<\/strong><br \/>\nThe following true story exemplifies the life of one leader and how his actions have affected the people he works with and their organization\u2014highlighting how these employees became exceptionally engaged and performance focused.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s take a look at Tangerine (formerly ING DIRECT Canada), a newly renamed financial services organization with corporate offices in downtown Toronto. The legendary stories of its CEO, Peter Aceto, drive Tangerine\u2019s culture to be shared by everyone, as well as produce desired results.<\/p>\n<p>Peter Aceto strongly believes companies with the most engaged employees are the companies that truly perform over the long term. He also knows employee engagement is one thing he can directly control and something that needs to be high scoring in order to beat the competition.<\/p>\n<p>What is not common are the practices Aceto has put in place at Tangerine to stay connected with all the employees. \u201cI spend a fair bit of my time connecting with people at all different levels of the organization,\u201d he says. Besides his direct team that reports to him and the typical one-on-one and team meetings, Aceto holds regular Town Halls with departments. However, in addition to the en masse meetings, Aceto takes time out during regular lunch hours to simply sit in a room or cafeteria with staff, bring his own lunch, and talk business.<\/p>\n<p>People love to share information with their CEO. From these informal meetings with employees, Aceto gains a lot of insight, which becomes a natural engagement measure that doesn\u2019t have to wait until an annual survey is conducted. It just means getting out on the front lines and mostly listening.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can learn an awful lot from them about what they know about the organization,\u201d Aceto points out, \u201cand I can judge how well their managers are doing in terms of our philosophy. We believe that every one of our employees needs to know as much about our business as possible, whether it appears relevant to his or her specific job or not.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Getting to this level of leadership commitment requires time. When asked how much time he spends on creating relationships and getting to know people in the organization, Aceto responds, \u201cit is slightly more than 30 percent of my day. I spend about 20 percent in meetings, maybe 30 percent of my day doing stuff that\u2019s \u2018anti-social,\u2019 such as reading memos, writing documents, reading presentations. But almost every other interaction is relationship building.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>BE MORE HUMAN<\/strong><br \/>\nDr. Robert Cialdini, author of \u201cInfluence: The Psychology of Persuasion,\u201d suggests leaders in today\u2019s world of information overload need to \u201cbe more human\u201d if they are to stand out. I think the accounts of Peter Aceto become the power stories employees draw upon in becoming the leaders of tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>A fundamental quality of authentic leaders has to be the ability to connect with people at all levels of the organization. Peter Aceto not only enjoys doing this and makes the time to do so, but he is aware that connecting with people is an important investment.<\/p>\n<p>Find the stories of your leaders, whether with the title or not, and retell these accounts to influence the attitudes and behaviors of your employees.<\/p>\n<p><em>Roy Saunderson is author of \u201cGIVING the Real Recognition Way\u201d and Chief Learning Officer of Rideau\u2019s Recognition Management Institute, a consulting and training firm specializing in helping companies \u201cget recognition right.\u201d Its focus is on showing leaders how to give real recognition to create positive relationships, better workplaces, and real results. For more information, contact RoySaunderson@Rideau.com or visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.Rideau.com\">http:\/\/www.Rideau.com<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Leveraging the internal tales of leadership to reinforce positive culture and right behaviors.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[25],"class_list":{"0":"post-9926","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-magazine","7":"tag-talent-tips","8":"magazine_issues-july-2014"},"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v25.2 (Yoast SEO v25.2) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Sharing Stories to Show Truth<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, 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